Senior military and police officers in Indonesia came forward this week to reveal the nation's security forces were still gauging the "morality" of female applicants by imposing "virginity tests" in the hiring process. Human Rights Watch HRW researchers first exposed how widespread the so-called "psychological examinations" for "mental health and morality reasons" were in , but since then the government has failed to take the necessary steps to prohibit the practice. It's a good thing, so why criticise it? Indonesia is not the only country where women and girls are physically examined in an attempt to disclose their sexual history. A "virginity test", sometimes called a "two-finger test", involves an examiner physically scrutinising a girl or woman's vagina to check the tissue at the vaginal opening the hymen is intact.
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Yet for most of us, the first time is, well, awkward emotionally, logistically, spiritually, etc. It ended up getting out of hand with over people showing up. Since it was her first time, she bled everywhere. Feeling embarrassed, she tried to clean it up with a bottle of spray bleach she found in my bathroom. She ended up bleaching my carpet and bed sheets.
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But I swear that each and every word of this is true. When I was in high school I was awarded the opportunity to go on a foreign exchange to a lovely tropical paradise—ah, Brazil—for senior year. As high-school girls are prone to do, I met a guy, another exchange student. We were the queen and king of virgin teenagers: I never had ANY dates in high school and neither did he.
So it took us quite a while to awkwardly, semi-defeatedly concede to each other that we had run out of excuses to avoid sex. But I had been hoarding dollars from my summer jobs landscaping and lifeguarding. My offer must have indicated to my mother how badly I wished for the thing I was asking. My grandmother only lolled her head, smiling. Whatever the adventure, she was in, as long as it included the family.