By Zachary Zane. After three incredible dates with a straight-identified woman, she ghosted me. I felt blindsided. Everything had been going well… or so I thought. She seemed genuinely interested in me and our last date ended with an hour-long make-out session!
Women Discuss Their Thoughts on Dating Bisexual Guys
Bisexuality: ‘What I learnt sleeping with bi guys’
There are plenty of women out there who actually prefer to date and have sex with bi men — in fact, they even go out of their way to find them. I think many straight men have been poisoned by this concept of masculinity that centers around punishing emotions. I just think many straight men have never had to think about their role before, and even for straight people, thinking about the kind of partner they want to be should be mandatory. I like dating bisexual men because I don't feel the need to explain myself to them. I always get a pit in my stomach when I come out to a straight man that I don't feel when coming out to a bisexual man.
‘What I learnt sleeping with bisexual guys’
Photo: iStock Source:istock. KATY is a year-old jewellery designer who started sleeping with bisexual men by accident. I HAVE never been attracted to overly masculine men.
And yet, dating a man who identifies as bisexual remains a taboo. But by seeing bisexuality as a deal-breaker, heterosexual women might not only be unwittingly dodging perfectly decent partners, but the best. Research has found that men who are bisexual - and feel comfortable being out - are better in bed - and the relationship develops - more caring long-term partners and fathers. Some women who took part in an Australian study even said they would never be able to go back to dating straight men at all. It turned out that straight men were the ones with more emotional and misogynistic baggage.